June 12, 2021

Publication Has Ceased

While Satisfying Retirement has ceased publication, the blog with the archives of all past posts will remain here for your use.

The comment function has been turned off. If you would like to reach me, use the link above for my email.

I have plenty of ideas for ways to allow me (and you) to interact again. I will take a few months off and see where my thoughts take me.

Thanks for all the comments and support over all these years.

My very best to you and yours,


June 7, 2021

Know When To Fold 'Em

It started with a need. As I struggled through the first phase of my enforced retirement, I was looking for help...help in the form of guidance from someone who had been down this path before and could tell me where the pitfalls were, how to manage life without work, and what made retirement worth it.

After several years of figuring it out for myself, I realized there were very few resources for someone like me. Plenty of websites would help me with financial decisions and choices. But, to learn about managing my time, strengthening important relationships, managing my money without obsessing over it, finding hobbies and interests, and making where and how to live choices, there wasn't much available.

After nearly a decade, I figured I had some thoughts and cautions to share. Plus, writing was something I loved and wanted to do every day. So, Satisfying Retirement was launched in June of 2010 specifically to fill that need for all aspects of retirement information from someone who was living it, as he wrote.

Nearly 4 million views, 1100 posts, and 30,000 comments and questions later, apparently that need was legitimate. With five books, co-authorship in four others, and a profile in a national magazine, I have been privileged to spread the message that retirement is the stage of life that is only limited by your imagination and creativity.

It has been one of the most fulfilling experiences of my life, certainly for me, and I hope, for many others.

Like everything in life, change occurs. A path chosen begins to lose its way in the forest—the drive to do something fresh forces a look for new challenges. What once was fulfilling begins to feel too much like an obligation. 

When a journey has taken someone to the logical end of the road, it is essential to accept reality and find a new path. As the song says, you've got to know when to fold 'em.

When one accepts life's limits, that means we know the number of opportunities for making a difference and accepting challenges is not endless. To continue to trek along a path out of habit is against everything I have been writing about.

All of that leads me to this: with this post, I am ceasing publication of Satisfying Retirement. The website will remain active for the time being, so you can come back and read any of the 1100+ posts from the past. Also, I want to protect the Satisfying Retirement name from being taken over by someone else, someone who isn't interested in what was built here. The email address will continue to work.

Thank you for the support and warm words. My decision may be a bit of a shock and disappointment, but I trust you understand. 

A Satisfying Retirement is completely within your grasp. Go out today and give it all you've got.

All my best,


June 3, 2021

RVing in Wine Country" What a Tremendous Trip

Even though we sold our RV five years ago, Betty and I often think about the trips we made with very fond memories. Seven years ago we visited a part of California famous for its wines and beautiful countryside that had avoided our attention before that. 

With the travel season upon us, vaccines available for many of us, and Covid restrictions starting to ease, it seems like to good time to revisit that trip with pictures and experiences. Now that things are opening up again, maybe it will give you a destination to add to your list for this summer. 

As part of our satisfying retirement, we have been to California wine country before, at least the area most people think of when someone says wine and California: the Napa Valley and Sonoma. This is where the big boys play with wineries like Robert Mondavi, Beringer, Inglenook, and Chateau Montelena (Think the movie, Bottle Shock). 

But, there is another California wine country that is very different in attitude and scale; the area around Paso Robles. With near 200 wineries within a thirty-mile radius, this is the home of the smaller operators, the smaller vineyards, and the less pretentious tasting rooms. 

 It is also home to stunning views and great wines at very reasonable prices. The rolling hills and the rural setting remind me much more of the Tuscany area of Italy than the Napa Valley. 

Here are some photos we snapped in this part of wine country 

Tasting Room at Tobin James Winery

Robert Hall winery tasting patio

San Antonio winery

We stayed in the appropriately named Wine Country RV Park. Not surprisingly, there was one tasting room within a three-minute walk of our parking spot, and another twenty within a 15-minute drive. While Betty and I are not big wine drinkers, it was fun to see the various types of tasting rooms, sample some of the local products, and check out the small gift stores that came attached to each.

Betty at one of the spas at the RV park.

Downtown Paso Robles is very attractive  Around a large, grassy, town square are dozens of restaurants, antique stores, and wine shops. Bailey found all sorts of new places to sniff and new people to greet.

She may be making progress in this area. Instead of acting scared of people and barking whenever someone new came into sight she either ignored them or allowed herself to be petted and have her big floppy ears scratched.  

As has happened on all of our recent RV trips we had the chance to meet another person who has become a virtual blogging friend and a frequent commenter,. She lives in Paso Robles and suggested we meet. Over hot chocolate and a Danish Betty and I had a delightful time sharing life experiences. 

The weather turned cool with rain showers for our last day in town but that didn't stop our having a tremendous time in the area. Then, we were off to Morro Bay and Bailey's first chance to experience the ocean.

At 575 feet, Morro Bay Rock dominates the view from almost any part of town, along with the three towering smokestacks of the largely unused power plant built near the rock.

With the summer crowds gone, Morro Bay was quiet. On a Friday afternoon, the waterfront area looked almost deserted, a few tourists looking for an open place for lunch and some locals making deliveries and painting a wall.

 Morro Strand RV Park is basically a parking lot, across the street from the city waste treatment plant and the power plant.

Pretty it is not but being only a block from the ocean made up for the obvious shortcomings. Bailey had plenty of places to sniff and roam and become friends with all the other dogs in the park.

Actually, we ended up with the best spot in the small park up against the back wall with shade and privacy. With most of the RVs in the park being much larger than ours we also benefited from plenty of shade when we wanted to use the chairs or picnic table.

There is a town bus pickup at the front entrance so we were able to "be local" and catch a ride to and from the downtown area.

Sunday morning we packed up and headed home. We have allowed ourselves five nights so we will take a leisurely route home, through Barstow and along the Colorado River near Parker, AZ before picking up the Interstate back to Scottsdale.

The highlights of the trip? Betty and I had the time and solitude to have some important conversations and sharing about our life together and how we wanted to enjoy our blessings to the fullest. And, Bailey gained new experiences and self confidence, making her less nervous around other people and situations.

For us RV travel is a chance to explore the country and deepen our love and relationship  And that makes it priceless.

As I reread this post, it brought back of flood of RV-oriented memories and reminded me of what an important part of our satisfying Life that 30-foot vehicle of fun was. And, how important Biley was in our lives and adventures. She left us last October but will be in our memories forever.