What we need is a re-branding. The goal is to change the image of the word. Retirement needs to be positioned as a period of incredible opportunity. It isn’t a conclusion; rather it is an encore, an additional performance added to an already great event. It is a time when your talents and creativity can reach new heights.
Companies rebrand all the time. Why not us? How would your retirement be rebranded? Here are a few thoughts:
- Create a vision of how you’d live if you could start from scratch. Here’s a shocker: that’s exactly what happens when you leave the job behind. You are starting again with a clean slate. How you spend your time and energy, who you associate with, what new challenges you take on are all within your power. Obviously, finances or health will create some barriers. But, I contend there are fewer limitations than you had when you were working 40 hours a week.
- Set timetables for turning that vision into your life. This doesn’t mean, “By Friday I’ll learn to play the guitar.” A realistic goal for the next year might be to become good enough to play a few songs for friends at a picnic. If your health isn’t where you want it to be, your goal could be to get your cholesterol numbers below 225 by your next physical. Setting goals that are too general and too open-ended won’t work. You must be able to measure your progress.
- Tell friends and family what you are doing. “Going public” is one of the best ways to keep you motivated. None of us like to say we are going to do something and then not live up to the promise. If you keep your goals and vision to yourself, it is much easier to waffle and make excuses.
- Don’t accept the marketplace’s definition of who you are and what you can do. Being retired means only what you allow it to mean. For many this is the busiest, most exciting, most fulfilling time of their lives. To them retirement means re-fire-ment: becoming fired up by all that life has to offer.
Once again, as somebody who has his proverbial "whole life ahead of him", I look forward to reti... my golden years as being a point in life when I can spend time traveling, partaking in hobbies, and being with grandkids and other family. I also hope it will be a time when I can see the realization of some long-term personal goals as well!
ReplyDeleteI love the optimism in your points!
I'd glad you enjoy my optimism! There is a mistaken belief that as we get older (regardless whether that means 30 or 40 or 60) we get grumpier. Not true. It is all attitude and making the most of whatever opportunities come your way.
ReplyDeleteI like this thinking. Retirement is a good time to rebrand yourself. There is too much coasting to the finish line these days. Be outrageous and do what you always dreamed of doing. I am not sure that asking your friends will help here because they will likely want to talk you out of your craziness.
ReplyDeleteI am afraid you are right about friends. It is an odd quirk of human nature to not be fully supportive of others, but to look for ways to keep everyone on the same level. I think it best you tell them what you are doing, don't ask them ahead of time for permission or opinions!
ReplyDeleteI am about to "rebrand" after 52 years of teaching. I am sad and happy at the thought of it....my family doesn't know me as NOT a teacher....it is scary. Any thoughts?
ReplyDeleteRe-branding in the sense I am using the term really relates to re-branding yourself. Besides being a teacher for over half a century (congratulations!), how do you think of yourself? What else lights your fire? What do you really enjoy doing when you aren't doing a lesson plan or grading papers? What have you always wanted to explore...volunteering, travel, writing, gardening....?
DeleteNow is YOUR time. Once you determine how you want to productively fill your days and keep your mind active (it will take a minimum of several months) then announce to your friends and family what you are doing. That will help them begin to think of the "new" you and put you in the position of wanting to fulfill your plans.
If you are new to this blog, welcome. There are close to 400 posts, virtually all of which should help you make the transition from teacher to whatever is next in your life. I'd suggest starting with the archive on the right sidebar and start at the very beginning (2010, June). Click quickly through each post, stopping at the ones you think might give you some guidance.
I also invite you to e-mail me (satisfyingretirement@gmail.com) if you'd like to discuss specific questions or concerns that we can exchange ideas privately.